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Ne legyen, csak egy mércéd. Amilyen mércével mérsz a rokonoknak és ismerősöknek, olyan mércével mérj az idegeneknek és az ellenségeknek is. Ha követed ezt a törvényt, hamar eléred a mennyek országát.

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The mistery of man and woman Print E-mail
Written by Ayurvéda portál   
 Férfi és a nőNature created man and woman to became one body and soul. This relationship was lived by very strict rules in the past, marriage, as the contact between man and woman, was there in every young person’s desires. Today it became a trend to be single, and marriages also do not last long. Why is it so?

The mistery of man and woman is often overmistified and invested with all kind of hidden characteristics. To avoid this I would like to introduce you this topic –within the length limitations- on a real manner which can be recognised by anybody.

Animal problems

Some part of the conflicts between man and women are generated by the instinct inherited from the animal world. The instinct of the female animal is to choose the healthiest male for mating, while the instinct of the male animal is to fertilize the most females. These instincts appear on other areas apart from the sexual affections. Men – could live in relationships since years - have a demonstration desire to be seen as the strongest man always. So because of this a multitude of substitute activities characterize them: constant fight with the rest of the males (who is stronger, richer, etc.). Women – could live in relationship since years – need to call the attention to themselves to be noticed by men. Because of this they use makeup (as peacock), they dress fancy or showy, or they cut a dash another way. This behaviour leads to many unnecessary claims and activity, but it’s real problem is, that these kind of man and woman does not have in their subconscious, that they are living in a relationship.
 
The two basic effort of a person (woman and man equally) does not differ from the animal’s. These are the survival and reproduction. These two instincts are present in the consciousness of all living beings as an ancient program. The female aspects request from the woman to receive it and give birth to the foetus, and to prepare a nest to bringing up the child. In opposite to this man creates the two most important thing for survival for the baby: the life-conditions (nest, food) and safety. 

Parental patterns

Many families became short during wars or epidemics. The loss of one of the parents leads to the fact that the children who survived has no male or female behavioural patterns. Due to the lack of parental balance a male child growing up without father becomes feminine, does not learn the creator aspects, or learns them only deformed. A girl child growing up without mother does not learn the female and maternal aspects and becomes manly. The distortion of the parental patterns continues when these children themselves start a family. In the sense of natural laws the manly girl choose a feminine man for her partner, so this order will “come down” among their children also. And this is going so even through millennia...
 
The main characteristic of a family is that there is a natural balance in the male and female aspects from the view of the children and from the view of an outsider also. The family is able to ‘use’ these aspects effectively to achieve their common goals.  

Fight of the genders

Nowadays women fight for integration, and most of them choose the illusion of carrier instead of the family. Men fight to be able to drive the family, but many of them has not enough strength to direct himself, not even to drive another person. Man got far from the nature, not only with the urbanisation, but with his own essence. Although this kind of fight of the genders developed due to the above mentioned ‘animal problems’ and ‘parental patterns’, the genders blame each other for this conflict  instead of solving their own problems. Many people lie about how happy they are, even the media stars want to make us believe that they are happy. In fact only very few people lives in a satisfied partnership on the Earth, and many people live with compromises. Based on my experiences most people lie to themselves so much, that during reading this article they still think they are different. However an exterior person sees through the false-smiles, the show-window politic and other covering strategies.
 
The illusion that any of the genders would be able to live without the other in the eartly life is a big illusion as both of the genders needed for reproduction. At the same time it is also an illusion that any of them can domineer until long time. A world without female aspects may lead to wars and humanity's destruction, while in the world without patterns of man the selectness of humanity would end, so it would also lead to destruction. What may be the golden way between the two extremes? 

Nature does not lie

The differences between man and woman not only appear in their body (the diversity of genitals: the female genital is a receiver organ, while the man genital is with an overflowing aspect; the female oocyte is a receiver, the man semen is intent), but their spirituality also. The ancient nature of man is to be the creator, the ancient nature of woman is to be where the creation happens. Because of this the woman represents the receiver aspects of the world, while man has the effusive (so called creator) aspects according to the nature. Fundamental female (receiver) aspects are for example the confidence, the sexual reception, the humility (servility), the desire, the mildness and intuition. Fundamental male aspects are for example the strength (physical and creator strength), the domination, the will, the sexual emanation, and taking responsibility. In a marriage people solve their own life with an optimal usage of these two kind of aspects.
 
In the illusion of the material world people do not recognize that the so eagered success, money and other chased dreams can not bring final relief, happiness to them. For a peaceful living together they need a collective consciousness change. They need the women to accept the man and take her place in the creation process, and they need man to respect everything women respresents, and be able to live his own nature. What are the own aspects of the genders?
 
The natural gender aspects and behaviours are the following:
•      Woman creates the emotional safety for the man, man creates the secure living for the woman (and child)
•      Woman receive and distribute the foetus, provides the female patterns to the child, while man insures the presence and the man pattern during upbringing the child
•      Woman protects her child (if needed against the man also), while man protects the woman against to the external world
•      Woman accepts man's care without a condition, while man is devoted and altruistic for the family unconditionally
•      Woman expresses her needs for the family maintenance honestly to man, while the man creates what woman desires
•      Women takes part in the family decisions with her intuitive aspects, while man takes part in these decisions using his rationality
•      Both parties act above ones freely, without any force.
 
The natural division of labour:
Based on the above ones it already outlines what the natural division of labour is:
 
•      Woman is responsible for man's emotional charging, while man is responsible for woman's sense of security
•      Woman is responsible for shaping the home, and it’s maintenance, while man is responsible for creating all the material conditions which is necessary for shaping and maintaining the home
•      Woman is responsible for the children's emotional education, while man is responsible for the children's rational upbringing
•      Woman is responsible for increasing the man's male strength (sexual strength, creator strength, etc.), while man is responsible for increasing the woman's female strength (sexual strength: beauty, motherhood, etc.)
 
We call it as deformed status if one or both of them are not able to act in their own aspect, but are able to act in the other gender’s aspect. So it is incorrect if women demands rising emotions from the man, while she herself is manfully hard. Of course it is also incorrect, if man demands confidence from the woman, while he is not able to give safety for her, what could help to increase her confidence.
 
Above aspects describes an ideal state. Situations diferring from this needs to be handled by compromises between man and women. For example if both of them has a job and earns money, they should also share the activities in house building and house-keeping together (cooking, washing, cleaning, etc.) This is based on two adult person’s discretion and will for compromise.
 
The essence of the genital aspects is, that the woman approaches the balance state, the origin, from the negative side (desire, emotion, etc.), while man is from the the positive side. Learning from each other, watching each other’s aspects, both parties become more perfect. The condition of this is to learn the other person’s aspect only that time when they are able to manage their own ones. If this is not the case unnatural distortions could happen, which may lead to conflicts between the genders. Everybody needs to understand that integration in the nature does not mean that women needs to have the same role as man, but it means that both parties are able to undertake their own roles, and are able to respect the other person’s genitals aspects. What does it mean? Let the woman be a woman, and let the man be a man. Let them not fight, but let them learn from each other. Let them not to blame the other person for their own unhappiness, but let them examine where their own genital aspect is inappropriate and leads to unhappiness. They will realise that the aim of a relationship and marriage is not to fulfill the sexual desires, but a contract, in where both of them co-operates to improve themselves and the other person together to reach happiness.
 

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Vigyázz! Nem akkor vagy Istenhívő, ha követed a törvényt, hanem akkor, ha teljes szívedből egyetértesz vele. Ha így teszel előbb-utóbb megérted, hogy nincs is törvény, csak tanítás. Ennek megértése kulcsfontosságú kérdés a lelki fejlődésed útján.

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"Hiszek, de olyan nehéz..." - Nem hiszel! Pontosabban abban hiszel, hogy nehéz! A hit is egy feltételnélküli aspektus! Amíg kételkedsz ügyeid valóban nehezen mennek előre. Azonban, ha a szívedből száműzöd a kételyt, a csodák viszik végbe azt, amiben hiszel.